8 Attributes

I had once again been tagged by Blither. Now what was this one again? hmm, 8 attributes I look for in a partner or was mate? There is a difference between the two. I mean really if it’s just someone I am just interested in sleeping with then most of her attributes would/will be physical. Shallow maybe but lets get real, would you sleep around with some one you weren’t physically attracted to? Damn with that said, I guess my partner would have to have some of those attributes as well, but on a norm if she possessed the following attributes then those would generally shine through above anything else.

Honesty – Yes above all that one has to be on the top of the list. I am not talking about some one that will tell you the truth if you ask the “right” question. It’s more when they share, the whole story is disclosed leaving no room for distrust. Granted at times the truth may hurt (for a moment) but nothing like something built upon lies…. Wow, I can go on forever just defining that word. If you haven’t noticed yet, I do have great trust issues that I am desperately trying to walk through.

Open Minded – This one should be self explanatory, just someone that isn’t stuck with their old ideas/thoughts and open to a new way of perceiving life. The willingness and ability to take a few steps back from any given situation and open look at it in a different light… I firmly believe there are always two sides to everything and it is my choice of how I wish to look at it.

Intelligent – Now I am not talking about school taught book knowledge and/or people that continuously use ten syllable words. It’s more you can hold a deep meaningful conversation and you can tell there is a light on upstairs.

Playful – Hmm, where to begin with this one? To keep it in a more simplified form, basically it’s someone that doesn’t take life too damn seriously; able to laugh at one self, doesn’t care if others are looking while just having fun… Living life in this “moment” and not worrying about the future and/or past…

Spiritual – Alright this does NOT mean religious (nothing wrong with that, for I am a Christian), it’s so much broader then that. Once again this one falls back upon the Open Minded and believing, feeling, knowing that there is a God and another realm/dimension among us.

Adventurist – The willingness to try new things in “every“ category… Someone whom enjoys outdoor activities such as but not limited to, camping, skiing (water/snow), four wheeling, hikes and exploring.

Spontaneous – Impulse is the best word for this one, and no it doesn’t mean shopping. I like to think of this as going with the flow and just doing. Got a hair up your butt? Then it’s time to just act upon it, not giving it a second thought.

Touchable –I don’t mean smothering, for we all need are space from time to time. I am referring to someone whom enjoys being cuddled, caressed, given a massage, hair combed with fingers etc… More simplified, loving/caring touches are more then welcomed and/or given.

Is that eight already? That was so much easier (except for some of the definitions) then the last tag. I can think of so many more attributes that I tend to look for in a woman, but I guess I’ll just leave those for another day/time. Now here comes the hard part, I so need to venture out more and meet more people so that I can begin tagging them myself :-S . Oh well, in time I am sure that will not be a problem. So for now I am tagging whom ever wishes to do this list. Please just let me know you did it and I'll be sure to comment on it. :)